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Proverbs 21:14

This is an observation about human psychology and relationships: a private, discreet gift — given without fanfare — has the power to defuse anger and strong wrath. It is not teaching bribery but wisdom about how to de-escalate conflict with grace and generosity.

Memory phrase: Quiet kindness calms anger.

Talk about it: How can being kind and generous help when someone is angry?

Prayer: God, help me be a peacemaker with kindness.

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