Martha's words sound like a gentle accusation, but they are really a statement of faith — she believed Jesus could have prevented it. She brought her pain honestly to Jesus, which is exactly the right thing to do.
Memory phrase: Be honest with Jesus about your pain.
Talk about it: Is it okay to tell God when you are sad or confused? Why?
Prayer: Lord, I bring You my sadness and my questions. I trust You even when I don't understand.