not: This is an allusion to the Retiarius: among the Romans, who carried a small casting net, rete: which he endeavoured to throw over his adversary's head. 1 Corinthians 7:2, 1 Corinthians 7:5-9, 1 Corinthians 7:28, 1 Corinthians 7:36; Matthew 19:12
and that: 1 Corinthians 7:33-34; Luke 8:14, Luke 10:40-42, Luke 21:34