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Proverbs 23:1-3

Proverbs 23:1-3

Matthew Henry's Commentary on the Whole Bible · Matthew Henry (1662–1714) · Public Domain

The sin we are here warned against is luxury and sensuality, and the

indulgence of the appetite in eating and drinking, a sin that most

easily besets us. 1. We are here told when we enter into temptation,

and are in most danger of falling into this sin: "When thou sittest to

eat with a ruler thou has great plenty before thee, varieties and

dainties, such a table spread as thou has seldom seen; thou are ready

to think, as Haman did, of nothing but the honour hereby done thee

(Esth. v. 12), and the opportunity thou hast of pleasing thy palate,

and forgettest that there is a snare laid for thee." Perhaps the

temptation may be stronger, and more dangerous, to one that is not used

to such entertainments, than to one that always sits down to a good

table. 2. We are here directed to double our guard at such a time. We

must, (1.) Apprehend ourselves to be in danger: "Consider diligently

what is before thee, what meat and drink are before thee, that thou

mayest choose that which is safest for thee and which thou art least

likely to eat and drink of to excess. Consider what company is before

thee, the ruler himself, who, if he be wise and good, will take it as

an affront for any of his guests to disorder themselves at his table."

And, if when we sit to eat with a ruler, much more when we sit to eat

with the ruler of rulers at the Lord's table, must we consider

diligently what is before us, that we may not in any respect eat and

drink unworthily, unbecomingly, lest that table become a snare. (2.) We

must alarm ourselves into temperance and moderation: "Put a knife to

thy throat, that is, restrain thyself, as it were with a sword hanging

over thy head, from all excess. Let these words, Take heed lest at any

time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness, and so

that day come upon you unawares--or those, For all these things, God

shall bring thee into judgment--or those, Drunkards, shall not inherit

the kingdom of God, be a knife to the throat." The Latins call luxury

gula--the throat. "Take up arms against that sin. Rather be so

abstemious that thy craving appetite will begin to think thy throat cut

than indulge thyself in voluptuousness." We must never feed ourselves

without fear (Jude 12), but we must in a special manner fear when

temptation is before us. (3.) We must reason ourselves into a holy

contempt of the gratifications of sense: "If thou be a man given to

appetite, thou must, by a present solution, and an application of the

terrors of the Lord, restrain thyself. When thou art in danger of

falling into any excess put a knife to thy throat; that may serve for

once. But that is not enough: lay the axe to the root; mortify that

appetite which has such a power over thee: Be not desirous of

dainties." Note, We ought to observe what is our own iniquity, and, if

we find ourselves addicted to flesh-pleasing, we must not only stand

upon our guard against temptations from without, but subdue the

corruption within. Nature is desirous of food, and we are taught to

pray for it, but it is lust that is desirous of dainties, and we cannot

in faith pray for them, for frequently they are not food convenient for

mind, body, or estate. They are deceitful meat, and therefore David,

instead of praying for them, prays against them, Ps. cxli. 4. They are

pleasant to the palate, but perhaps rise in the stomach, turn sour

there, upbraid a man, and make him sick. They do not yield men the

satisfaction they promised themselves from them; for those that are

given to appetite, when they have that which is very dainty, are not

pleased; they are soon weary of it; they must have something else more

dainty. The more a luxurious appetite is humoured and indulged the more

humour some and troublesome it grows, and the more hard to please;

dainties will surfeit, but never satisfy. But especially they are upon

this account deceitful meat, that, while they please the body, they

prejudice the soul, they overcharge the heart, and unfit it for the

service of God, nay, they take away the heart, and alienate the mind

from spiritual delights, and spoil its relish of them. Why then should

we covet that which will certainly cheat us?

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