Parents are here cautioned against a foolish indulgence of their
children that are untoward and viciously inclined, and that discover
such an ill temper of mind as is not likely to be cured but by
severity. 1. Do not say that it is all in good time to correct them;
no, as soon as ever there appears a corrupt disposition in them check
it immediately, before it gets head, and takes root, and is hardened
into a habit: Chasten thy son while there is hope, for perhaps, if he
be let alone awhile, he will be past hope, and a much greater
chastening will not do that which now a less would effect. It is
easiest plucking up weeds as soon as they spring up, and the bullock
that is designed for the yoke should be betimes accustomed to it. 2. Do
not say that it is a pity to correct them, and that, because they cry
and beg to be forgiven, you cannot find in your heart to do it. If the
point can be gained without correction, well and good; but if you find,
as it often proves, that your forgiving them once, upon a dissembled
repentance and promise of amendment, does but embolden them to offend
again, especially if it be a thing that is in itself sinful (as lying,
swearing, ribaldry, stealing, or the like), in such a case put on
resolution, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. It is better
that he should cry under thy rod than under the sword of the
magistrate, or, which is more fearful, that of divine vengeance.